A college dropper, and as someone who could not get through JEE Advanced, took to Quora to find a reason to “live”. The anonymous person asked
The perfect reply came from Arpit Kubadia, which says how there are more important things worth living for than an exam. Here’s the complete answer:I’ll tell you a story
Imagine this. You come home after getting your results . It was really horrible (or you think so) . You’re just ready to give up. So you go to your room, close the door, and write down a suicide note You take out those razor blades, and cut for the very last time. You grab that bottle of pills and take them all. Laying down, holding the letter to your chest, you close your eyes for the very last time. A few hours later, your little brother knocks on your door to come tell you that the dinner is ready. You don’t answer, so he walks in. All he sees is you laying on your bed, so he thinks you’re asleep. He tells this to your mom. Your mom goes to your room to wake you up. She notices something is odd. She grabs the paper in your hand and reads it. Sobbing, she tries to wake you up. She’s screaming your name. Your brother, so confused, runs to go tell Dad that “Mummy is crying and sissy won’t wake up.” Your dad runs to your room. He looks at your mom, crying, holding the letter to her chest, sitting next to your lifeless body. It hits him, what’s going on, and he screams. He screams and throws something at the wall. And then, falling to his knees, he starts to cry. Your mom crawls over to him, and they sit there, holding each other, crying, weeping with tears. The next day at school, there’s an announcement. The principal tells everyone about your suicide. It takes a few seconds for it to sink in, and once it does, everyone goes silent. Everyone blames themselves. Your teachers think they were too hard on you. Those mean popular girls, they think of all the rubbish things they’ve said to you. That boy that used to tease you and call you names, he can’t help but hate himself for never telling you how beautiful you really are. Your ex boyfriend, the one that you told everything to, that broke up with you… He can’t handle it. He breaks down and starts crying, and goes out of the school. Your friends? They’re sobbing too, wondering how they could never see that anything was wrong, wishing they could have helped you before it was too late. And your best friend? She’s in shock. She can’t believe it. She knew what you were going through, but she never thought it would get that bad. Bad enough for you to end it. She can’t cry, she can’t feel anything. She stands up, walks out of the classroom, and just sinks to the floor. Shaking, screaming, but no tears coming out. It’s a few days later, at your funeral. The whole town came. Everyone knew you, that girl with the bright smile and bubbly personality. The one that was always there for them, the shoulder to cry on. Lots of people talk about all the good memories they had with you, there were a lot. Everyone’s crying, your little brother still doesn’t know you killed yourself, he’s too young. Your parents just said you died. It hurts him, a lot. You were his big sister, you were supposed to always be there for him. Your best friend, she stays strong through the entire service, but as soon as they start lowering your casket into the ground, she just loses it. She cries and cries and doesn’t stop for days. It’s two years later. The whole school talks to a counselor therapist at least once a week. Your teachers all quit their job. Those mean girls have eating disorders now. That boy that used to tease you cuts himself. Your ex boyfriend doesn’t know how to love any more and just sleeps around with girls. Your friends all go into depression. Your best friend? She tried to kill herself. She didn’t succeed like you did, but she tried. Your brother? He finally found out the truth about your death. He self harms, he cries at night, he does exactly what you did for years leading up to your suicide. Your parents? Their marriage fell apart. Your dad became a workaholic to distract himself from your death. Your mom got diagnosed with depression and just lays in bed all day. People care. You may not think so, but they do. Some of your choices don’t just affect you. They affect everyone. Don’t end your life, you have so much to live for. Now talking about your father; don’t you think he will prefer a non-IITian child over a dead child? You will get another chance He can still come back from this But there’s no coming back from death And more importantly No doubt that his parents will be mad at him for low marks But if he does this.. It will break them. Ask him If he’s willing to deal with this problem.. Not for anyone.. But his parents.. Be honest with him Life won’t be a breeze now People will look down at him And his parents will also be mad in the beginning But If he succeeds the next time… In anything not necessarily this.. Then all WILL be forgotten.” So why do this to yourself when you can write, swim, dance, sing, paint, orate, run business with out of the box ideas, fall in love, find a friend you can pour your heart out and talk until dawn, live in your dream home, fly to Athens or take a hike in Rishikesh (or where ever you have always longed to), work up the adrenaline and go bungee jumping, and all that keeps your heart saying let’s live more. Why reach a stage where you are sitting in an office consumed by drapetomania (strong urge to run away) when you can make a career choice that satisfies your soul, gives you opportunities to excel, and have you rise in what you love to do. Quote source Life is tough and making career decisions tougher, but then again, it is tougher. Not impossible. STOP THIS MENTAL ILLNESS IN OUR SOCIETY. You walk out of the interview feeling pumped. You just gave the best interview of your life. The job is perfect, you have the right skills, and the interviewers gave every sign of offering you the job right then and there. And yet…a few days later, you still got a rejection letter.
It is hard when a job you are really excited about doesn’t work out but there are many extenuating circumstances that are outside of your control that you can’t see as a candidate. Hiring managers are put in a situation where they would be perfectly happy hiring 3 candidates, but the fact is, there is only 1 opening available. Here are some of the top reasons why you might not get the job that is outside of your control: 1. Someone else was more qualified. While you might have been perfectly qualified for the job, someone else might have had more experience or a particular skill set that you don’t have. Maybe the employer didn’t even know they wanted that particular skill until the candidate showed up. 2. An internal employee or an employee referral got the job instead. When a candidate is a known quantity to the employer or a current employee, the employer will prefer to hire that candidate. In the case of an internal transfer, the company will retain institutional knowledge and know that the candidate will fit into the company culture. Some organizations (especially government) have a policy of interviewing a minimum amount of candidates – as a result, you might be a filler to meet their quota. 3. You were not a fit with the team dynamics or company culture. When hiring, employers have to consider more than your skill set. They also have to think about whether your personality and working style will fit into the company’s culture and team dynamics. Maybe they believe one of the executives will not like you (even though you would be a perfectly fine employee), and that’s not something you can tell from the outside. Don’t let the rejections get you down, because often, it is not a reflection of your worth. Job searching is like matchmaking – many things have to fit for you to be a happy and productive employee who will stay for the long term. It is also important that you don’t become bitter from your rejections, even if you are rejected repeatedly. It will show when you interact with employers. The best way to leave a positive impression is to thank the employer for the opportunity, ask politely for feedback, and even ask to stay in touch with the hiring manager. If there are openings in the future, you might get a call to interview for another job! Theory -2Theory -1When
Theory -3Theory -4You know you are on the right path if:
If any of the above theory resembles with your life,you are going on right path and living a great life. Don't complicate your life..make it adventure,take what comes and enjoy it. When you no longer care about what others think, you listen to your gut feeling which tells you "keep going." when you're uninterested in looking back, because you've got something more important to look ahead. Every morning when you've reason to get up, and the reason is not just because you're alive, It is because you're living. When no matter how the day was, You've a smile on your face when you go to sleep. When you face difficulties, but you don't give up. No matter how hard they are, they work well for you. When you're thankful for the things you have, thankful for the experience you had. And even for the slightest second you think you're on the wrong path, you feel the happiness you get is worth the pain. Then, you're on the path for that one thing you need in you're life, Don't let anyone take that path away. Keep going. :) Don't let it go.
WHEN YOU HAVE NO REGRETS!! Straightforward reasons why you should take on an internship abroad (especially through AIESEC!)
1) You’re taken out of your comfort zone. This proves that you’re able to work under pressure and rise up to new challenges. It’s a great thing to mention to future employers. 2)You’ll gain new perspectives. Different countries may have different work ethics, and you will gain knowledge on how things can be done differently. This could then give you an edge when you start looking for work after university. 3) Language skill development. What better way to learn or practice a language then being in an environment where it’s spoken, and where you’re forced to speak some of it. As the world becomes more global, learning languages is an important skill to have. 4) You get to learn about a field while contributing to the community. Especially with our AIESEC GCDP (Global community development program), it’s a great chance to learn about teaching for example. While you’re learning you’ll also be able to give back to the community where you’re doing the internship (like providing education to kids there!) 5) Food. Face it, when you go into a new country you’ll definitely be looking forward to, and trying out, the different foods the country has to offer. Going on an internship abroad means you get to try new foods, gain new recipes, and eat in new ways you haven’t done so before. So if you haven’t done so yet, take on an AIESEC internship. For those who have already gone on one, I’m sure they could provide more ample reasons on why you should take on an internship abroad :) DIFFERENT TYPES OF AUTOMOBILE CAR BODY
When someone is going to buy his/her first car ,they are confused about their purchase.Each one has their specific needs according to factors such as price,number of seats,fuel type,mileage and looks,too.Looks mostly depends on car's body types.This can be effect the customer's need as for city with traffic needs a smaller car and for big family need big cars.This can be defined by the car body types of the vehicle.
One might have listen words like MUV,SUV,MPV,SEDAN AND SALOON IN the news and on commercial of different cars,what does all this words means we will know today's post. Car body type is a subject for automobile engineers ,the name given to the car body type is according to design,purpose,technology,and local country. Some of the car body types are used in india
A hatchback is a car body configuration with a rear door that swings upward to provide access to a cargo area. Hatchbacks may feature fold-down second row seating, where the interior can be flexibly reconfigured to prioritize passenger vs. cargo volume. Hatchbacks may feature two- or three-box design.
While early examples of the body configuration can be traced to the 1930s, the Merriam-Webster dictionary dates the term itself to 1970.[2] The hatchback body style has been marketed worldwide on cars ranging in size from superminis to small family cars, as well as executive cars.
Some of the examples for hatchback are Maruti Suzuki 800, Alto, Hyundai i10, i20, Fiat Grande Punto, Tata Indica, Indica Vista and so on.Tata Nano and Mahindra Reva electric ,too known as hatchback cars.
A sedan /sɨˈdæn/ (American, Canadian, Australian and New Zealand English) or saloon (British and Irish English) is a passenger car in a three-box configuration with A, B & C-pillars and principal volumes articulated in separate compartments for engine, passenger and cargo.The passenger compartment features two rows of seats and adequate passenger space in the rear compartment for adult passengers. The cargo compartment is typically in the rear, with the exception of some rear-engined models
Some of the examples of Sedan are Indigo eCS, Indigo Manza, Swift Dzire, Mahindra Verito, Ford Fiesta, Hyundai Verna, Renault Scala, Honda Amaze, City, Civic, Accord, Chevy Sail, Cruze, Skoda Rapid, Laura, VW Jetta,Passat and so on.
A sport utility vehicle (SUV) is a vehicle similar to a station wagon or estate car, and are usually equipped with four-wheel drive for on- or off-road ability. Some SUVs include the towing capacity of a pickup truck with the passenger-carrying space of a minivan or large sedan.
Popular in the late-1990s and early–mid-2000s, SUVs sales temporarily declined due to high oil prices and a declining economy. The traditional truck-based SUV is gradually being supplanted by the crossover SUV, which uses an automobile platform for lighter weight and better fuel efficiency, as a response to much of the criticism of sport utility vehicles. Types of SUV
Mahindra Bolero, Xylo, Tata Sumo, Force Trax and Toyota Innova are classified under MUV only. Mahindra Scorpio, XUV 500,Skoda Yeti and Tata Safari Storme are classified under SUV because of their design and ability to use in all road conditions.Toyota Fortuner, Honda C-RV, Mitsubishi Outlander, Montero, Ford Endeavour, BMW X1 and Audi Q series are all classified under higher price SUV.
Coupe
A coupé or coupe (from the French past participle coupé, of the infinitive couper, to cut) is a closed two-door car body style with a permanently attached fixed roof. The precise definition of the term varies between manufacturers and over time. The term was first applied to 19th-century carriages, where the rear-facing seats had been eliminated, or cut out.
Aston Martin V8 Vantage Coupe,Audi RS 5 Coupe are examples of this type.
Convertible
A convertible is a type of automobile of various automobile body styles that can convert from open-air (top-down or topless) mode to a provisional enclosed (roofed or top-up) mode.
Roof designs have varied widely and have evolved from the earliest models, where roofs were demountable and/or detachable. Contemporary roofs are often hinged to fold away, either into a recess behind the rear seats or into the boot or trunk of the vehicle. The roof may operate either manually or automatically via hydraulic or electrical actuators, and the roof itself may be constructed of soft or rigid material. Soft-tops are made of vinyl, canvas or other textile material, while hard-tops are made of steel, aluminum, plastic, or other rigid materials |
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